My Pisces ex won’t return my key like he is confused about what he is doing wrong
I am a single mother which hurts even more well it started like this I met a guy in my teenage years we were friends for a long time then one day he asked me out but in lived out of town by then so every weekend we made plans I would return home and spend time with him he act like he was so in love but we would stop talking for long periods of time then pick up like it never stopped…. well I moved home 10 months ago I ran into him at a football game we started talking and things moved fast I’m a Capricorn so this is a lot for me.
Well he acted like he was so in love with me then he would stop calling, stand me up, not gm texts anymore… but when I call he acts like everything is okay. So we have a house together he stopped coming home but will not give me my key he keeps asking what did he do…. all the lies, different women, openingly flirting, no calls…. he said he wants to be with me but I put to much pressure on him but I don’t I do everything for him
There isn’t really a question here but I will assume you want my take on what is potentially going on. Based on what you wrote I am inclined to go back to how I tell everyone that if the relationship is going way too fast that usually means something is wrong. A person like me anyways should be cautious about moving too fast as I want to make sure you are the one considering I want to know that our commitment and connection with each other is mutually strong.
Speaking from my own observations, usually when it goes that fast then the person wants something from you specifically as opposed to wanting to be with you. Example, in your case maybe it was getting a “home” and winning your heart was simply the means to do so. I know, not exactly the thing you would want to hear but I am simply being realistic on the possibilities based on what you wrote and the behavioral patterns I have witnessed personally.
Like saying, you may do everything for him, yes. But if he doesn’t truly want to be with you then that makes perfect sense as what he really wants are the things you give him without anything attached to it. If that’s true then it’s time for you to make a decision and stand your ground I say.