Confused with a pisces guy
I feel very confused about this pisces guy at work. he started to lead me on at work, i follow through, till he told me to keep the relationship in a professional way, which i agree, but he kept giving me signals that he still interested in me (staring at me all the time, ways to be around me, opening doors for me) till one day i asked him if we can hang out and he rejected me saying that between me and him professional relationship only, but he kept showing me that he still interested, so i felt so hurt that i decided to ignore him. he started to leave early before i get to work in order not to see me, and he also block me from instagram.
So i decided to send him a insta message and told him that i have not see him at work and then hope to see him soon again. so the week we both showed up at work and i just said hi and he looked happy. like a couple of weeks ago a guy from instagram posted and comment on all my pics, that was a thrusday. then i had to work with him on saturday, so i came to work early and he came to me and confronted me about that the store knows that i liked him.. so he said ” i have no feelings for you” so i said to him that his actions speak louder then his words, so he was shocked when i told him that and then i asked him why does he blocks me and unblocked me from instagram, he checks my profile like 7 times a day, cause i know when he unblocked me.
so he when swearing on his grandmas’s grave that he never did, which i knew he was lying to me, so then i told him what was the big deal that i liked him.. so he answer me saying that it make him feel umconfortable, since our shift was about to start so left it the convo at that. 2 weeks ago we had a event at the company where both of us work and we had dress up semiformal, so he looked very handsome that day so i wanted to take a pic with him.. i asked him if it was ok and he said yes, so i took the pic with him and then i gave him a kiss on his side beard and then i walked away without looking at him, but i never knew what this kiss was going to cost me after. He went to talk to the owner and the associate manager and told on me. I got in big trouble at the end of my shift.
I really was not expecting that, i was mad and surprised by his action and attitude. luckily my boss was very cool about it, he just told me not to take it personally, he told them that he feels umcomfortable with me at work because i complimenting him. after that i’ve been avoiding him, but he keeps showing the interest in me, he parks his car right besides mine, he looks for ways to interact with me… i really don’t get this guy.. when he actually say to my boss that he feels umcomfortable with me.
please help me to understand was going on???
I have to go by the assumption with what you wrote that all the signs he was giving you were indeed signs of interest. I mention this because everyone interprets actions differently where in many cases what you may think is a sign of leading you on may actually just be a person being friendly as an example.
But with that said, based on what you wrote I am inclined to say there is like a moral conflict here in his mind where a relationship with you is just inappropriate for whatever reason. That can be life values, religion, personal beliefs, etc. Now mix that factor with natural human attraction and chemistry of sorts and now we are like essentially putting ourselves in a constant conflicting state.
To me his actions would all make sense that way as it’s like there is a desire to want to try it but then the rational side is saying don’t do it.