So, I met a guy who is Pisces and we started going out. He seemed like he is into me like no one ever was. He is very very sensitive and kind and we became close and was meeting often, but also talking during the day. Seemed like a fairytale, like those things happening only in the movies. Five days ago he called me saying I am the most wonderful girl in his life and that he was so lonely before me. It made me feel good. However, the next morning he sent me a good morning message but he seemed distant when I initiated a conversation after that. He said he is feeling bad for no reason at all. I accepted it the way he said it to me and said that I am here if he wants to talk about it. After that, he just started ignoring me. Not replying to my messages. I saw that he deleted most of his friends on Facebook and I wondered if its me or something else.
I am worried because nothing serious really happened and I am confused whether its me, if we are done or he is going through something. Never been in a same situation, so I am really wondering what is happening.
By the sounds of it it’s him not you. From what you wrote I would say your bond with him in a sense was a substitution/distraction from having to deal with whatever issue it is that he has. While nothing serious may have happened by the sounds of it things happened really fast where you got to see only one side of him. That’s not to say the feelings weren’t genuine. But I often say if it happens too fast then I would personally step back and really think why. Especially if the notion is the person is supposed to think like me then it is awkward in many ways that a person would just go all in so fast.
The only thing I can really gather with what you wrote with all the friend deleting and such is that he wants recognition. I am using the word recognition because with what you wrote it feels like it is more about getting back at the universe. You may say that you send him messages which he doesn’t reply to but many times in these cases it’s about wanting the whole world to know in a passive way as for some reason he may feel betrayed. You can rule out that it is about you specifically per se as you did say he deleted most of his friends.
Think of it more like he used to go to all these restaurants for a long time which he loved. One day the restaurants gave promotions only to new customers and so he felt betrayed. Afterwards he found your restaurant and immediately started to claim it’s the best in town so fast even though he didn’t truly try everything. One day he goes to your restaurant and just says he isn’t hungry. You ask why and he doesn’t answer and just leaves. What you notice is that he publicly starts to delete all his past positive public reviews for all the other restaurants.
So like there the underlying issue is he wants those restaurants to truly recognize how “bad” they were per se for not treating a loyal customer like him with those benefits first. That needs to be solved first. Like there him enjoying the new restaurant may be all true and such but the reason for liking it so quick is no surprise as there is a lot of bitterness about other things factored into.
That’s what you would need to ultimately find out if you are pursuing him. As well, it’s for your benefit too to truly find out how he genuinely feels about you without an outside motivated factor for it.