How To Win Back or Get Forgiveness From A Pisces Man
This seems to be a frequent topic as well where someone mentions that for one reason or another some kind of dispute arose with a Pisces person and now it seems like they are gone forever. Speaking personality wise, I am pretty much the same. What is the reason for this? That whole notion of a “Once a cheater always a cheater” remark is extremely true from my personal observations and so I tend to not let pleas and pitches persuade my decisions. I am personally one of those “I can forgive, but I will never forget” type of people too. The same holds true if you did something nasty to them in general.
I hate to say it, but if the person has my personality type and you did something extremely bad to them, the odds of getting them to associate with you again through conventional ways depends on their gullibility based on life experiences or the lack of it. For example, I used to be the type that helped virtually everyone in extreme ways even if they have done me wrong. In many cases, they just ended up taking advantage of me again. After awhile, you just learn to take care of yourself and not to trust people like those again the first time as you are doing yourself a disservice by not looking out for yourself too.
Is it impossible? Of course nothing is impossible. However, the way a person like myself would even remotely speak or associate with you again is based on your actions surrounding your life and not what you say or do for me specifically. Example, buying a gift or saying sorry a thousand times isn’t going to work as in my mind our two personalities and values in life are too different based on whatever the incident may be and I don’t think that either people should try to change the other.
Actions surrounding your life for example would be things such as did something like your hobbies and habits change? One situation I hear a lot is that the person just blew up and started saying mean spirited remarks to the person which caused them to leave forever. Like in that case, saying sorry isn’t enough. A person like myself will observe your action such as if I believe the cause of your bursts was that you were an alcoholic, did you stop drinking? If I think you were just super impatient, did you naturally start taking hobbies like golf or play chess all the time now which you enjoy on a frequent basis?
As you can see, these aren’t exactly the type of things you would change or do simply for one person and so it is not something you can easily fake. Likewise, I wouldn’t expect someone to change for me as it is all about being yourself and finding the right person for you. So if you are truly trying to win someone back in this way with that type of circumstance, don’t even try I’d say. It should come down to you actually wanting to change yourself for whatever reason and that will indirectly attract the person back too. To what extent, that is between you two.
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